If you aren't seeing God as loving, if you can't trust Him to be loving and good in your life, something is wrong. If your mind is filled with someone else, if this someone else is messing you up emotionally, you're allowing that person to control you, have power over you. This is wrong and it isn't as God wants it to be.
Jesus' yoke is easy. His burden is light. In Him you can have peace immediately no matter what is happening in your life.
You do not need to fear anything or anyone. Threats from others cannot touch the child of God inwardly.
If you're dealing with some very difficult people and you're afraid, God wants you to trust Him. God wants you to realize He is the God of Love and these people are not like God.
Who did Jesus yell at? Who did Jesus get after when He was walking around on the earth? The ordinary sinner? The every day person? No. He rebuked the pharisees, the ones living by the law; the ones who said they represented God and God's rules. They didn't represent God. They represented man's religion at its worst.
The other one Jesus got after was satan and Peter when Peter let Satan use him.Jesus said to Peter, "Get behind me Satan" when Peter said Jesus would not go to the cross and die.
Do not let others mess with you inwardly. Do not let others have power over you. Go to Jesus. Rest in Him.
Another verse comes to mind:
"Some boast in chariots and some in horses,
But we will boast in the name of the LORD, our God." Psalm 20:7
I also want to share a powerful website with you. God can use any of our talents to share His message. This website uses animation in a powerful way. It is found at: http://worship.com/2011/05/all-i-have-is-christ-an-animation-2/#comment-9764
The one I site is a animation video put to the worship son "All I have is Christ."
God is so creative. He will use everything we give Him for His glory.