Who are we taking refuge in? Who are we looking to to solve our problems? If the answer is a person, than we will be frustrated. If we are looking for God for the answer than we can rest knowing it is on its way. God uses people: doctors, parents, friends, church families, school officials, etc., but any solution, any true solution, comes straight from God.
When we expect people to help us and they know it, we are binding them to us in an unhealthy way. Give them freedom to help and freedom to walk away. God is our Provider. God is our Healer. God is our Peace. Not people.
Let people be people. Let God be God.