Seek God.
Are you needing wisdom?
Ask God.
"if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all (people) generously and without reproach, and it will be given to (them)." James 1:5
I had a situation in my life I couldn't figure out. I sought answers for months. Finally God broke through and gave me wisdom about it. Sometimes it takes time to get answers.
And sometimes you don't get answers. Instead God might just give you peace.
Oh, I wish we could sit together and I could tell you how good God is; how He is far better than anything this world can give you; that those struggles you are dealing with are being used by Him for great good (if you let Him that is).
Don't give up hope. There's always hope in Him. Always. If you're still breathing there is hope.
We have to learn to live our faith -- meaning we live not by what we see but by what we don't see. Living by faith means we know the world we don't see is far more vast than the world we can see. This world is a mere shadow of the invisible realm. If our eyes are focused on our struggles instead of God we will be overwhelmed by them. We're like the disciples in the storm. All they saw were the waves and the wind and the rain. And they were scared. They should have remembered they'd be okay because Jesus was with them. They weren't going to drown. But they woke Him up and accused Him of not caring for them. He told the storm to quiet down and asked the disciples where their faith was.
Oh, Jesus cares. Jesus loves. Jesus is here. Jesus is with you.