"Remind them . . . and solemnly charge them in the presence of God not to wrangle about words, which is useless, and leads to the ruin of the hearers." 2 Timothy 2:14
A believer should refuse to get caught up in manufactured drama -- guard herself against it diligently. It does no good for anyone, especially to the one who is the center of the drama. And if we are ones who still create drama (which is us trying to control our own worlds) we need to let it go. This world isn't about us. Life isn't about us. It is about God. If it doesn't go our way, thank God for this. He saves us from ourselves more than we know.
"If we are going to live appropriately, we must be aware that we are living in the middle of a story that was begun and will be concluded by another. And this other is God." Eugene H. Peterson