"For a child will be born to us,
a son will give to us:
And the government will
rest on His shoulders;
And His name will be called
Eternal Father, Prince of
Peace." Isaiah 9:6
No matter what is going on in life, no matter what you're dealing with you can always have peace.
Jesus promises if we believe whatever we shall ask for will be done for us. That is a promise.
But sometimes that answer doesn't come in the form we expected or even wanted.
Sometimes there is no understanding for us. No matter how much we try to understand we can't. This is because God is eternal, our souls are eternal and sometimes the answer is in eternity and not in this realm.
One day understanding will come.
Until that day we can have peace.
Accept His peace. Rest in it. Let Him work through you. Let Him heal you.