If you believe you blessed. Jesus said so! If we keep believing no matter what, no matter that we see no evidence with our eyes, we are blessed. Jesus said so.
And when Jesus says something, it is true. He is Truth. He is Life. He never changes. He is the same yesterday, today and forever.
Maybe things aren't as you want them to be, but know you are blessed if you believe. Tell yourself I am blessed.
What does blessed mean? It means highly favoured one, happy, favoured, glorious, holy, beautified (yeah, you're beautiful); equipped with what you need; God's favour is on you!
Amen. Take that! Believe it. If you don't, you're listening to the wrong voice.