That is the same question in a different format that Jesus asks when He tells us to count the cost.
Everything worth anything has a lot of mess in it. Two things in my life that are worth the mess: my art and my fountain pen.
The messiest things of all are humans. We are filled with unpredictable emotions and thoughts and we often make things a lot worse. But God says we are worth the trouble. We are worth the mess.
Whatever you are considering you gotta ask yourself if it is worth the mess.